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I’m Malgorzata, a sexologist and certified sex coach based in Brussels, Belgium.

Sex doesn’t taste as good anymore? From navigating differences in desire to asking the questions you’ve avoided, this is your shame-free space to feel sexually empowered.

Dare to Ask is more than a brand - it’s an invitation.

The questions we’re afraid to ask often hold the answers we need most. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore your questions and discover who you are, wherever you are on your journey of sexual expression. 

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Explore your sexuality and intimacy safely

Sex can be a joyous expression of ourselves. And still, we often secretly worry about it; is what I want ok? Why does sex hurt? Is my low libido normal? Will my partner accept my deepest wishes? What are my own needs?

If you’ve asked any of these questions, know you’re not alone and you're in the right place. If you need a listening ear along with the knowledge and advice you are looking for, I’m here to meet you where you are at.

How I can help

Who is sex coaching for?

I work with women, men and couples between the ages of 35 to 60 in Brussels, Belgium. We explore your sex and intimacy questions in a shame-free environment:

  • You want to feel more confident and skilled in your sex life

  • You want to express your needs and desires without fear

  • You’re facing a non-medical sexual challenge, such as self-image issues

  • You want to explore new parts of your sexuality

  • You’re struggling with mismatched desire, perfectionism, low libido, menopause, lack of orgasm, pain during intercourse, etc.

I work with my clients in a coaching space. I am not a therapist, nor do I work with nudity. If your needs go beyond sex coaching, I will refer you to a specialist. 

We’re often told that sexuality is purely physical and can be “fixed” with a pill. In reality, it’s shaped by biology, psychology, culture, and relationships. For many concerns (e.g., low libido in women), medical intervention may not be necessary, or else it’s just one piece of the puzzle.

Several clients have shared that they wish they felt more interested in sex. In listening to their stories, it became clear the cause wasn’t biological, but rather exhaustion, an overloaded schedule, or relationship conflict.

  • My private sex coaching sessions last 50 minutes. You can expect total confidentiality and I never divulge the information you share with me to anyone, as per our contract. 

    Throughout our sessions, we will work together to identify your goals and develop action steps with achievable outcomes you can implement.

    Learn more about my services here.

  • I can facilitate workshops around sexual wellness and pleasure, in corporate and private settings. If you would like to book me in for a workshop, please contact me at maugo@daretoask.eu or the contact form on my site to schedule a call to discuss. 

    Learn more about my workshops here.

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My Story

I'm Malgorzata Jokipii, Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach™. I’ve always seen sexuality as a space for freedom, discovery, and play, something to explore without shame or judgement. Growing up in a conservative country, these conversations were off-limits for “good girls,” yet I knew they mattered.

Before sexology, I worked as a conference interpreter, learning to listen deeply and picking up on what’s spoken, implied, and left unsaid. These skills now help me create a safe, understanding space for my clients’ most intimate conversations.

Today, as a Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach™, I use positive sexuality, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Co-Active® coaching to support you in reconnecting with your unique sexuality. Free from shame, pressure, or judgement. My approach embraces your whole self; mind, body, emotions, and spirit, so you can explore intimacy, pleasure, and sexual confidence on your terms.

You are the expert on your life. My role is to walk alongside you, offering encouragement and guidance as you discover what’s possible.

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Hear what my clients have to say

  • Private session client

    I had just one session with Malgorzata and it was incredibly efficient and eye-opening. She offered a perspective I hadn't received from my regular therapist. When it comes to issues of a sexual nature, I found it much more effective and comfortable to speak with a specialist like her. Highly recommended.

  • Workshop client

    Małgorzata’s workshop was a truly empowering experience. She created a safe, respectful, and judgment-free space where parents could openly discuss a topic that is often surrounded by uncertainty and discomfort. Her approach was both compassionate and practical — blending scientific knowledge with real-life examples and thoughtful guidance.

    What I appreciated most was how Małgorzata broke down complex and sensitive topics into clear, age-appropriate ways of speaking with children at every stage of development. She offered practical strategies for answering difficult questions honestly, building trust, and fostering a sense of safety and respect in the parent-child relationship.

    Her emphasis on teaching children about relationships, consent, boundaries, and self-worth felt deeply important and empowering. I left the workshop not only with useful tools and language to use in conversations but also with the confidence that I can guide my child towards a healthy, responsible understanding of sexuality.

    Małgorzata’s warmth, knowledge, and passion shine through in everything she says. I highly recommend this workshop to any parent who wants to feel prepared, confident, and connected when talking to their child about this important subject.

  • Private Session Client

    Working with Malgorzata on my own brought a new and exciting energy into my relationship. Her soothing, quiet style created a comfortable space where I could explore angles I hadn't considered before. Her coaching methodology provided a really strong foundation for these conversations, which ultimately led to significant personal growth and helped me connect more deeply with my wife. She was able to provide a great framework for our conversations, throwing in theory only where it was needed to give the discussion a solid base.

Book an appointment.

Please fill in the form below to book a private sex coaching session.

To book a workshop, please contact me via email maugo@daretoask.eu or through the contact me page to schedule a call to discuss.

For coaching sessions, please let me know of any cancellations at least 24 hours in advance, otherwise the session will be charged. 

On my blog, I explore topics around why heterosexual men are much more likely to experience orgasm and pleasure from penetrative sex than heterosexual women. As well as subjects around low libido after menopause, body confidence during sex, how to reconnect with my body, and much more.

Rethinking sex and connection

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Bookshelf

Passionate Marriage
by David Schnarch

Mating in Captivity
by Esther Perel

Attached
by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller